I've tried for a while now to persuade my mum to take basic precautions to ensure she is as secure as possible when using the internet. Weening her off AOL took the promise of faster internet and better reliability with a Pipex broadband connection (1). Small things, like installing a firewall and antivirus for her, took many months of reasoning before permission was given.
In the end though, I am happy enough for my mum to use the net without major problems. And until recently, she was using Internet Explorer. ActiveX was disabled, though she had no idea what that actually was - or that it was disabled. Same with third party cookies and several plugins.
Occasionally I had to explain why a site wouldn't work, and she'd be happy enough finding and using a different one. She referred to Internet Explorer as "Google" and associated (and still does to a degree) the blue 'e' on her taskbar with Google, because it was her homepage.
Eventually, though, the only things left to do were to help her switch to a better browser and email client (Thunderbird's not quite ready, but that switch is coming soon).
Opera was something of a disaster. She liked the way the email client worked, and picked that up in no time, but as a whole she found there was too much to take in. I removed just about every button and bar, till we were left with basically a pretty-looking replica of the IE interface, but by then the damage was done. She just doesn't like Opera. At least she's tried it though, which is something.
After Opera, of course, came Firefox. Now it's actually been released, I'm happy to recommend it to her. And the funny thing is, she loves it. She says the top bar is prettier and easier to use than IE (actually, she says it's prettier than Google, but we all know what she means). She loves the popup blocker, though I'm fairly sure she's forgotten it's there.
Best of all though is the stuff she doesn't know is there. She has noticed that some sites look better. Not many, but a few. She doesn't know it, but she is more secure. She's even started using favourites - something she, until recently, avoided like the plague.
We were having a chat about it today, though, and that's when it hit me - most of the reasons I gave her for changing are completely and utterly worthless. She doesn't care if it renders pages like the W3C say they should be rendered. She doesn't know, or want to know, who the W3C are or that CSS is what controls the look of pages.
She doesn't care about tabbed browsing. She uses one web page at a time. When she's finished with it she goes back to Google and starts over again. She might, one day, start to use tabbed browsing, but I doubt it. She doesn't care about RSS. She doesn't know what that is. She wouldn't use it if she did.
At the end of the day, she likes - and uses - Firefox because it's faster, better looking, and just plain easier to use. She likes the fact she feels safer using the net with it. That's it.
Perhaps that's how we should start pitching it to the masses.
1 Before anyone complains that I've done something wrong by getting her to switch to broadband, she's very happy she's changed. She loves the speed, and it's saving her money - before, she had a second line and was paying for an unmetered connection.
20 Comments
Ha ha, nice article.
I have also noticed that a lot of users (experienced or unexperienced) who I know that have started using Mozilla firefox absolutely love it.
Also thanks for the Flesch formula for PHP, that will come in handy for my final year project - e-mail training application, which basically gives uers feedback on how they are using e-mail
#1, C, United Kingdom, 4 December 2004. Reply to this.
If you know of anyone strongly attached to IE you can implement:
http://www.firefoxie.net/
#2, FirefoxIE, United States, 6 December 2004. Reply to this.
Oh, amen to that. Did Microsoft become successful by being the best technology? Or AOL? No, they became successful by selling computers to people who know very little about computers. They account for the bast majority of the market.
#3, Small Paul, United Kingdom, 20 December 2004. Reply to this.
I had to read this post because the title was just too wonderful. :-)
I think you've hit the nail on the head -- as always, in sales, you present the features they're interested in. And selling we are.
#4, DianeV, United States, 23 December 2004. Reply to this.
I started off with a simaler pitch to my sister. She regually clicked on banner ads and alsorts of rubish that Internet Explorer would just go install and she just wouldn't care. It wasn't untill I noticed her computer DoSS attacking my compter over our network that I relised her computer was so badly infested with virus' (263 in all). I installed a virus scanner (AVG Free), Firewall (ZoneAlarm) and a spyware scanner (Ad-Ware), of course I installed Firefox as well. Since the she has commented numerus times about how fast her computer has become since I forsed her to step away from her computer. With Firefox she now can't tell ActiveX "OK" when it asks her to install something because ActiveX isn't there to do it.
#5, Matt, United Kingdom, 1 May 2005. Reply to this.
Great story. I live and work in Silicon Valley and my folks live in Texas. Ever try helping your parents troubleshoot their computer over the phone. On my annual trip home, I switched them to Firefox from IE. Best thing I did, aside from installing VNC.
#6, Mike, United States, 17 January 2006. Reply to this.
Dude...
"And the funny thing is, she loves it. She says the top bar is prettier and easier to use than IE (actually, she says it's prettier than Google, but we all know what she means)."
That is funny! That sounds so much like my mom haha! By the way - moms make great beta testers for your websites too... if she can figure it out ok you have your bases covered for 99% of the web :)
Nice article - fun read!
Jim S.
Jacksonville, FL USA
http://tentonweb.com/
#7, Jim S., United States, 15 March 2006. Reply to this.
Thats funny. Sounds like my mom also..
#8, Kris, United States, 28 April 2006. Reply to this.
Actually, come to think of it, She always calls it foxfire..
#9, Kris, United States, 28 April 2006. Reply to this.
well, why not buy your mums (and dads!) a mac? I am a mother of two sons (23 + 25), we all work on macs without any problems and: my husband/their father, who is a painter (oil on canvas) is able to use his computer fairly without problems (surfing the net, emailing) - he uses a mac, as well!
#10, helga, austria, Austria, 7 June 2006. Reply to this.
I can completely sympathise with this aticle's author. I switched my Mum and Dad over to Firefox from IE a couple of months ago.
It's so amusing at times listening to them try to adapt.
Oh and by the way, my mum refers to her browser as 'Yahoo'. Genius! Haha!
Good article : D
#11, John Lo, United Kingdom, 14 November 2006. Reply to this.
My mom refused to believe that adding RAM was a good idea. "leave it the way it came" was her reasoning. I finally went to her house and installed it when she was out bird watching. She is much happier with it ("it's so fast now") but has no idea that she has 4 times her initial RAM.
#12, mums are all alike, United States, 15 November 2006. Reply to this.
About time I updated anyone interested on the situation - I finally got her to ditch her Vaio POS and buy a Macbook. Before the upgrade she kept saying things like "It's Fine" despite a five minute boot to Windows time. Now she loathes her old Vaio. She loves the Macbook. She's getting better with the web too - so much so that I may have to remove this article in case she finds it!
#13, Dave Child, United Kingdom, 15 November 2006. Reply to this.
Awesome article! I needed a good laugh. I know people who are the same way. I try to get people to swtich to Firefox so they can use TiddlyWiki, and they get all thingy about both ideas. Nicely written comedy / personal piece. Found it with the wonderful Stumble Upon extension...for Firefox.
#14, Dave Gifford, Unknown, 18 November 2006. Reply to this.
When installing Firefox on my parents computer I changed the Firefox icon to the familiar IE icon. They hardly know anything has changed (the change to IE7 would probably been more difficult than changing to Firefox).
#15, Joris Vincken, Netherlands, 18 November 2006. Reply to this.
Members of my family were like your mom. But now they use Firefox not because of any thing I said, they just like it better. They don't understand tabbed browsing, adblock, cookies.....I gave them all the reasons that Firefox was safer....but until they saw a reason they could understand I was just a geek talking trash........
#16, jhs5577, United States, 24 November 2006. Reply to this.
You really fancy yourselves as experts -most of your thoughts are typical nerdish rubbish - De Gustibus non disputatum
#17, terry, United Kingdom, 29 December 2006. Reply to this.
terry: Calling other people nerds ... while reading (and commenting on) blog posts about firefox? Really?
Pot, meet kettle.
#18, Dave Child, Unknown, 27 May 2007. Reply to this.
Terry: You also missed out an "est" on the end there, mate. anyway..
Dave: love the article, and the site generally. I think most computer literate folk have the same experience with parents/friends when it comes to recommending a change to the way they use thier own machines. No one wants, excuse me Terry, "Nerd" talk, because it confuses them. Tell me about the cubic inch capacity of my car engine and my expression will glaze over as fast as any technophobe discussing cross-browser compatibility issues.
Tell me it will be easy to use, not need fixing, and wont blow up, and i'm happy. There is a large element of the computing world which is designed only for the consumption of the computing world, everyone else needs to know what things do, not so much how they do it, or why.
#19, Streff, United Kingdom, 8 June 2007. Reply to this.
Wow came upon this old article randomly. Funny though, I'd like to know how she'd deal w/ IE7, that UI threw a lot of people for a loop.
#20, Chris Olberding, United States, 29 November 2007. Reply to this.